My memories of Norfolk, Va Police Officer Decker

When people say I do not like the police department? It is a big statement to make about a subset of the population that I consider corrupt! It is many officers, all across America, that will not violate your civil rights to perfect an arrest. It is so many that would be spending a weekend in jail if this officer didn’t give them a second chance to go home and cool off, instead of a arrest and a jail cell. There are many that I pray to there families for healing in a time of grief and tragedy. Officer Decker was a friend that I seen all over Norfolk. This beloved officer help so many avoid arrest by simply deescalating confrontations that he has faced before probable cause existed. He had also went to me while having a good time in Norfolk to help settle disputes that could have easily turned violent. It is so many men and women that have not had to spend a night behind bars because of his preemptive actions. He has always treated me with respect and has always been professional and courteous. He is the officer that I hope will have justice and bring closure to his family for his death. He was natural police. He wore the badge with honor and acted colorblind towards his enforcement of the law. I would see him in downtown norfolk, va talking to citizens and friends about ordinary life. He was clearly the life of the party. I am bothered, each and everyday, that the family has yet to have someone convicted of this senseless killing. However, I want everyone to know I lost a friend in the Norfolk, Va Police Department a few years ago. I will never forget this trusted police servant. I believe he and just like Omar Johnson deserve justice. I hope they are hanging out in heaven and having a ball. A tragedy is a tragedy, so to local government officials in the City of Norfolk, Va, show some damn respect. One way or the other, there will be justice!

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Fat Joe pending divorce is no big deal in modern society

No offense but if Newt Gingrich can be a front runner for the Republican Nomination to the Presidency of the United States of America than Fat Joe has done nothing wrong, and even from Sarah Palin opinion will be able to soar to new heights by having adulterous affairs.  Fat Joe wife should only be mad if she did not know, but other than that, she is not going to meet another guy to marry her more successful than Fat Joe.  If she needs further example:  Michael Jordan wife and all the other ex’s of cheating husbands.  They are single and do not find trying to get back into the dating world as easy as it may seem.  Yes, It is nothing wrong with being a cougar or whatever.  However, A divorce doesn’t make you immune to the same issues unless you decide to bring out the best in you with the next. 

Right now, I think you and Joe should work it out and really decide whether you married for death till you part, or for the financial stability being the “iron clad lock,” on saying “I do” at the alter.  If it is for financial reasons, than Fat Joe didnt do you wrong.  He bought you like he can buy the next.  Marriage has to be taken serious or do not get in it at all.  Crazy ladies, that have been cheated on is the reason why men are not getting into marriages or entering without a pre nup.  We all learning from Kobe, Tiger, Michael Jordan, and the rest that followed in his foot steps and those that came before him. 

Cheating is no longer a valid reason to leave someone that has been taking care of you all or most of your life.  Metaphor to Drake with a Mack twist, “Did you write one Fat Joe hit that has made your life easy and more comfortable.”  If not, than stop complaining about the way he does it, and sometimes that means relieving stress and clearing his mind at the times that it is needed.  Sometimes a annoying wife is not needed during these time frames, but someone that could care more about pleasure than pain. Some ladies feel like a man should have a heart attack stressing about them. 

Trust and believe people wise up and say I rather relieve my stress with someone that is about showing someone a good time than someone that brings stress to them everyday.  People under these conditions will always need something to balance off the nightmare.  Fat Joe wife may find it cool to grab some headlines and become a reality star which seems to be the motive of a lot of women going for a divorce.  However, The lives being protrayed is not going to make the grass greener on the other side.  It will expose the world to every reason to leave you single, lonely, and used up.  A serious relationship will no longer have meaning, and when it comes time for you to start taking one serious, than no one is going to be serious enough to make you the one. 

 

Good Luck and Work on your marriage and not on divorce!  The 26 year old is a jump off not a wife! Fat Joe wife been looking the other way to his exploits for the whole time of the marriage. All of a sudden she wants to look the truth right in the mirror at this time. If Fat Joe wife wants out the marriage than this isn’t a valid excuse. What in the world made you look the other way for so long to start looking now. Unless you are the one looking at other things other than Fat Joe.

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