Former supervisor ‘forgiven’ for racial slur
Merle T. Rutledge Jr responds,
Also, Its not just Fred making these statements. Williie has a rightto speak on his own behalf. The use of the word did not just offendthe black community. It offended everyone that voted for Obama whichincludes white voters in this area. These statements are happening allacross the country. To say that tempers are being flared just locallyminimizes the importance and definition of the meaning of unacceptablebehavior. You have a right to say what you want, but you areresponsible for the consequences that come from your own statements.The election is over and the people have spoken. It should have beenthe end of it than, but Im sorry, no one in this room stirred up thefire, it was all in Fred and Willie own doing. Willie is being paid for his publicrelations work on this by BOS friends and affiliates. He has been being paid off for quite some timeso thats why Willie is not excused! Trust my anger with Fred isnothing compared to what I think about slick “Willie T. Fitzgerald”,NAACP president which he cited in a op ed in the Danville Register and Bee supporting possible future Uranium Mining in Pittsylvania Co, I mean Pittsylvania County NAACP President. Oops! The Virginia State chapter of the NAACP already has a proclamation that supports the ban on Uranium Mining for numerous reasons that Willie failed to mention.The article should read Willie apologizes for Fred. Willie getsappointed by the BOS to lots of committees, etc that pay him amonthly stipend. He’s not likely to do anything to that willcompromise his bread and butter. Our opinions will evolve with moreinformation. However, its not my job to be eye to eye on everyone andevery issue. We all have to make the best decision without beingchildish in our disagreement. We had a whole discussion on the issuewithout calling each other kiddy or racial disparaging names. I have alove for public service and my stereo types should not part of thedecision making process. I have watched every debate from Republicanto Democrat in our Presidential election. The behavior and rhetoricwas full of over generalizations mixed with hurtful statements about ethnic or social groups, every income class,gender, immigration, gays, other than wealthy. However, there are manywhite people, as well as other Pro American groups struggling to get bye every single day and we all, nomatter race, do not want to be just getting bye, but being able toprovide comfortably for all of our families. The use of hateful words is a naturaldisaster in the form of words. Hurricane Sandy compared to the arguments onrace, which one would you consider to cause the most overall damage?It is race. However, we all manage to come together when we need eachother, instead of us only coming together for unity and clarity ofeach other. We owe each other more. This is America and we are all entitle to our beliefs, nomatter how repulsive it maybe. Fred Ingram is protected by the FirstAmendment. However, I have the same rights to say what i want, but Itake responsibility and will even triple down on it, so people know, Imnot joking, but Im serious about my platform.I do not care what race you are, any words to degrade your race in anyway is hateful and unacceptable in my book. I understand the reversediscrimination argument and this is about wrong no matter what ethnicgroup you recognize. I could care less where it came from and thosethat try to put it in the paper that they forgive. They are ok toforgive, but dont represent everyone else point of view. When youcommit a crime or wrongful act before a judge, you get punish. You can try to ask for forgiveness, but the penalty is there for those that try to use this as a defense to get out of any penalty. So tosay punishment is not warranted in some shape, form, or fashion,especially in this area, is considered a double standard. There arepeople in this area and all across Virginia that said they did notcome to me because they thought I would not address their issuebecause they was from another race. I always tell anyone and everyonethat Im here for the people and not for one particular race. Wrong isWrong. I do not look at race as a guideline or requirement for mysupport. I look at the issue and Im colorblind in my resolve.We agree on the bad judgment on the use of words on the issue, but wedisagree on itsthe resolution. We all have someone in our family thathas done something wrong to someone. No one is immune to thatassertion, even though it appears to be naked and vague. The past isthe past. I thought as a nation that we might have moved forward, butthe process of this previous election, has made it clear that it is alot of work that has be done for Americans as a whole, in thetreatment of our neighbor and into the treatment of those that we maynot know. To assume is to make a fool out of ourselves. I preferfacts and Im waiting on them to come, on any and every issue. I wouldgo to Fred Ingram, myself, and than defend than to go defend and noteven know the background from the person that caused the mess. I’m not going to ask anyone to be called a racist name and to say thats ok,please feel free to do it again. Im sorry thats just not me at all.What you might not know about Willie Fitzgerald is thathe is appointed to several Boards/Commissions for which“community service” he receives monthly pay. It is shocking thatWillie is quick to pick up the phone to speak to Fred Ingram, but wonteven talk to or pick up the phone to talk to people about theirconcerns in regards to the area. I can name everyone that has called Willie to talk about a civil rights issue and he has never called back or even picked up the phone to hear their concerns. However, his phone magically works for apology issues and BOS concerns. You are the NAACP president for the BOS and not for the community. Trust, I have personal experience, as well Willie! There is a serious conflict of interest with you accepting any apology under these conditions.
Fred, your apology comes with a lame excuse that President Obama election cause your stock to plunge and lose a lot of money. This is what happens when you place a bad bet. Now you are losing more, over your antics and have nothing but yourself to blame. A real apology would have included telling others not to follow suit all across America. Your reaction is disease that has spreaded and your platform could do a lot to help mend fences. However, I do not see you having any plans to stop others from doing it because it furthers your rhetoric without having any personal responsibility. This is no apology that I will accept! Read the bible and go to the part about faith without works section. You can google it as well!
Also this is another letter by another concern citizen about Fred Ingram comments…
Posted: Wednesday, November 28, 2012 1:53 pm
To the editor,
I believe there are those rare events in life when a request for an
apology should not be so easily granted. Such is the case with the
recent incident involving Gretna resident Fred Ingram.
Most Americans over five years of age know the impact the N-word has
for many in our society based solely on the origin of the word.
Anyone, who uses the word in a public place in the year 2012, (even if
he owns the place) knows the import and the impact of the power of the
word.
The fact that Ingram owed an apology to the woman who was offended by
his callous comment is clear.
Based upon what we learned from newspaper reports, the offered apology
was not initiated by Ingram.
Apparently, the woman shared her story with her boss who, in turn,
called Ingram and had him provide an apology via telephone.
Even the “public” apology was not initiated by Ingram but by several
members of the community who approached him and requested he make
amends.
At minimum, any apology should be one that is believed to be genuine
and heartfelt. At no point throughout this apology tour did it appear
Ingram led the effort.
It appeared he was reminded of the role he has played as a leader in
the community for many years and was given little choice but to submit
to those demanding the apology.
There are some who believe that requiring Ingram to make a “public”
apology” is synonymous with “calling-out” a bully or a R-word. I beg
to differ.
Why do we think it is necessary for a man to apologize for what is in
his heart; for what is a clear example of his long-held beliefs; and
is characteristic of his individual behaviors?
African Americans should, in addition to being guided by “the
Christian thing” to do in certain situations, remember the lessons of
nearly four centuries of American history.
In particular, we should remember the sheer significance of the grand
privilege it is to cast a vote in a free society.
This is especially true since it was the vote, cast many times over,
that determined our lowly condition in this country for more than
three hundred years.
Surely, we will never forget that people died to ensure our right to vote.
We saw during this political season how many state leaders want to
reduce our process of voting in America to that of a third world
country.
This is especially important when you consider that the John Roberts’
Supreme Court has recently agreed to consider overturning a core part
of the Voting Rights Act of 1965.
The vote that I cast for President Obama on Nov. 6, 2012, had a more
profound effect on me than the first vote I cast for him in 2008.
Like Ingram who worked to see his candidate get elected, I also worked
long and hard for the Obama campaign.
As a youngster coming of age in the 1950s and 1960s, I saw firsthand
how important the act of voting was for my parents.
The two votes that I was able to cast for Barack Obama – something I
never dreamed possible – will be something I will treasure for the
rest of my life.
Consequently, I will not readily excuse someone who essentially calls
me, and others, the N-word for simply casting a vote for the candidate
of our choice.
There were 64,498,468 people (50.8 percent) who voted for Mr. Obama to
the 60,298.998 (47.5 percent) for Romney.
The president carried not only the African American vote. He carried
the Asian, Jewish, Hispanic, women, and young vote. Do all of these
people fit the term Ingram describes?
I saw Ingram’s apology in the Danville and Chatham papers.
Unfortunately, the Star-Tribune included a misplaced photo op of the
four men involved in the making of the “public” apology.
What other U.S. newspapers received notification of this apology? What
about the apology for the other nearly sixty-four-and-a-half million
plus who voted for President Obama and who live outside the area
served by the local newspapers?
This sitting president has suffered more indignities, more disrespect
and more hate than any other in the history of the American
presidency.
In fact, it has become fashionable to publicly state that you hope
someone will assassinate the president.
Moreover, it is apparently okay to volunteer for the assassination job
– even if you are someone sworn to protect the lives and property of
others.
All decent Americans should openly denounce this type of appalling discourse.
Ingram should not be let off the hook so easily. If he can, over time,
demonstrate with his words, conduct and behavior that he is not the
person he appears to be, only then can he get a nod from me. I have
spoken with many others who hold the same view.
In the meantime, I would like to see our local clergy and NAACP
tackle, with the same level of swiftness, eagerness and zeal they gave
this incident, the real and critically important issues that currently
exist in the African American community.
Janie Clark Davis
Chatham
Boycott this restaurant
Crossroads Restaurant owned by Fred Ingram
3700 Rockford School Road
Gretna, Virginia 24557
434-656-1675
fcaingram@yahoo.com
Thank you for your time,
Merle Rutledge JrChatham, Va7576923571
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